YouAt
Family location sharing, done privately.

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Inside YouAt — the full story.

The family app with more features than reasons to open it.

The app that follows you only when you want it to.

The origin, the tech under the hood, the roadmap, and how to help us launch.

What YouAt does

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Walk-to-Car — one-tap parking anchor

Tap the 🚗 button when you park. YouAt anchors the exact GPS coordinates and turns your phone into a live walking compass — feet remaining, cardinal turn arrows updating at ~1 Hz via a Haversine bearing calculation against your live fix, all the way back through the biggest lot. Works indoors in parking garages by falling back to the last-known anchor when GPS drops. No ad-supported “parking apps,” no dropped-pin gymnastics, no wandering row-to-row hitting the panic button on the fob. Coming soon: Automotive Bluetooth disconnect + phone-stop detection for zero-tap auto-anchor.

YouAt Walk-to-Car in action — 0.58 mi Turn right, live compass card, parking anchor pin at Sugar Hollow

Real field shot — walking back to the car from Sugar Hollow Park (swim trunks optional 😊).

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YouAt Trail — never lose the way back

A wilderness backtracking mode built for hikes, hunts, and family adventures where cell service dies. Tap the 🥾 icon at trailhead → your phone drops high-frequency GPS breadcrumbs every ~20 ft into a local SQLite spool (no cloud round-trip needed). Follow the reverse-order dashed trail back to your car even after 8 hours off-grid. Live Share My Hike lets you opt-in per hike so family can watch your progress in real time from home. Distance covered, elevation gain, and pace all render on-device. Zero data plan required in the field.

YouAt Trail live turn-by-turn — 0.55 miles, Turn right, follow trail, back to StartYouAt Trail backtracking — 657 ft to Start, real GPS breadcrumb trail on OpenTopoMapYouAt Trail start modal — Share live with family checkbox, Past Hikes history, zero cell signal ready

Real field shots — Sugar Hollow Park, Bristol TN, Sept 24 2026. Tap any thumbnail to enlarge.

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Safe Zones — one clean alert

Circular geofences with server-side 50% radius hysteresis. For a 100 m Home zone, you must cross 150 m outward before an EXIT fires, then 100 m inward before an ENTER fires — mathematically impossible to flap on GPS jitter. Smaller radii get a scaled dead-band. State machine lives in MongoDB per-zone / per-user.

YouAt Safe Zone entry alert — green Arrived at Sugar Hollow banner with the orange geofence circle visible around the parkYouAt silent refresh in action — Emily refreshed the map system notification with Away from Sugar Hollow zone status pill

Left: entry alert firing the moment Jaye crossed the hysteresis threshold. Right: silent refresh delivering a zone-status pill without waking family members.

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Ghost Mode — truly disappear

Server-side hard-drop, not just UI hiding. When Ghost is on, the /api/location endpoint returns 204 without writing to the location collection — no lingering pin, no "last-known dot" leak, no client-side spoof needed. Family members see a purple "Sharing paused" pill. Advanced Ghost adds continuous Gaussian-noise drift on the wire.

YouAt Ghost Mode ON — purple Sharing paused card, You are invisible to family caption, self-view still renders own pin faithfully

Real field shot — Ghost active. Your own map still shows you (self-view is faithful); family sees a purple “Sharing paused” pill and nothing else.

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SOS with custom message

Long-press hardware button opens the composer. Message + GPS fires a MAX-importance push through FCM on a dedicated channel with bypassDnd: true — reaches family phones in under 2 seconds even on silent. One tap dials 911 directly via the native dialer intent. No call-center middleman, no monitoring subscription.

YouAt SOS Emergency options — three tiers: Safety Timer, Call 911 Now, Alert My Circle — on OpenTopoMap near Roan High Knob

Real field shot — three tiers of help, one clean sheet. Roan Mountain, TN.

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Auto crash detection

Accelerometer-only heuristic — no gyroscope, saves battery. At 10 Hz sampling we look for a G-vector magnitude spike > 4G (adjustable 3–5G), followed by a 5-second post-impact stillness window under 0.6G swing. The stillness check plus a 21-second cancel countdown is what separates a real crash from a hard phone drop — high-sensitivity mode WILL trip on a 24″ wooden-floor test drop (3.1G), but the countdown gives you time to tap “I'm okay.” After that: GPS + red "needs help" banner flies to family. All on-device, zero cloud AI.

YouAt crash detection — Possible crash detected, 3.1G impact, 21 second countdown, I am okay cancel alert, Call 911 now

Real test — 24″ drop onto hardwood registered 3.1G. Countdown fires, false alarm cleared with one tap.

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Family Circles — 100 members

Invite-only 100-member circles via one-time codes. Members see honest presence (Live / Idle / App closed / Offline — never faked), battery context, in-app group chat, one-tap YouAt-Locate. Ping Loud attention-grabber routes through the MAX-importance channel so a family member's phone rings even on silent. One flat $4.99/mo — no per-seat pricing.

YouAt Family Circle management — Daves group with F9HKDS invite code, Copy QR Share Chat, 2 of 100 membersYouAt member detail Emily — Refresh quietly pill, YouAt-Locate button, Battery OK In background Home In zone honesty pillsYouAt member detail Dave — Live status pill, Recent activity shared their location, Lock destination

Group management → Emily (background, 59% battery) → Dave (Live). No faked presence pills anywhere.

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YouAt-Locate — silent check-in

The heart of the 2005 vision. Instead of a phone call, tap a family member and their device gets a targeted push — their app opens to a full-bleed "share your location now" card. One tap replies with a fresh fix. No arguing, no forced texting, no "why aren't you answering." The name honours the original three words: "You at?"

YouAt-Locate loud ping — Emily is asking where are you Dave, one tap Send location banner over OpenTopoMapYouAt-Locate notification tray — full cycle: Emily is asking, Emily shared their location, Emily refreshed the map silent quiet-refresh

Left: the loud ping — one tap to reply. Right: the notification tray showing ping → reply → silent quiet-refresh all stacked cleanly.

Under the hood

My Story

A parking lot in Pigeon Forge, 2005. A husband sat in his car waiting for his wife to finish shopping at the Tanger Outlets. He watched 100 people walk out of a store, put a phone to their ear, and say the exact same three words: “Where are you?”

He turned to his wife when she got back and said, “Someone should build an app that just tells you where the other person is. And where you parked. So you can actually find each other.”

Twenty years later, Jaye — now a 40-year CNC programmer residing in Bristol, Virginia, originally from North Carolina — finally sat down at an $80 HP laptop with his phone as a tester and built it right. That app is YouAt.

Jaye and Dottie — the YouAt team
Jaye and Dottie — YouAt is built by the two of us, for families like ours.

Pricing

Future expansions — the YouAt Chase pet & kid GPS tags, in-app family chat, and other Complete Family Safety & Location Portal add-ons — may be offered as separate tier upgrades. Everything currently in the app stays at $4.99/month forever.

Roadmap

How to help

The 20-year quote

“In CNC work, one bad line of code destroys an $80K machine. I built YouAt the same way — 30+ rebuilds before Play Store submission. Family safety deserves that discipline.”

— Jaye, YouAt LLC

Contact

Founder: founder@youat.app

Press: press@youat.app

Support: support@youat.app